South Africa’s Department of Home Affairs has proposed a new law that will allow women marry more than one husband, in the same way that polygamous men can marry many wives
Legalization of polyandry is one of the wide-ranging proposals in the Green Paper on Marriages.
The 67-page policy document also called Green Paper on Marriages, stated that the current marriage act does not promote equality.
The policy document highlighted that the current marriage legislation is discriminatory as it does not recognize Hindu, Jewish, Muslim and Rastafarian marriages. The policy document also called for polyandry to be legally recognized as a form of marriage.
The Green Paper proposed three new marriage regimes to bring equality in marriage laws. One of these options is a gender-neutral marriage regime.
“This would accommodate both polygyny and polyandry
“…Therefore all marriages, whether monogamous or polygamous, could be concluded regardless of the sex or sexual orientation of the person.”
South Africa’s Ministry of Home Affairs appears to favour the option for a gender-neutral marriage regime that allows both polyandry and polygyny. The Ministry wrote;
“The political appetite of the country to confront the challenges of the current marriage statute will be tested through these options. However, if Section 9 of the Constitution was to be implemented in its entirety, option 3 will tick all the boxes.”
The Ministry however noted that the option for polyandry has ruffled feathers and South Africa’s traditional leaders have vociferously opposed the proposal, claiming that a woman being married to more than one husband is an “unacceptable practise because it is not of African origin.”
“Ironically, stakeholders who believed in the practice of polygamy … were opposed to the practice of polyandry.
“This is the beginning of a crucial public discourse that will re-define the concept of marriage in South Africa.
“The process will unearth issues that may make some of us uncomfortable, but will encourage dialogue within the South African and international communities.”
Minister Aaron Motsoaledi and officials heard from stakeholders, including traditional leaders, religious leaders, academics and LGBT and gender activists.
“Moreover, activists submitted that equality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage,” said the document.
South Africans have until the end of June to comment on the department’s proposals.
In a related story, an African woman identified by local media as Brisbane shared photos of herself last year with two men she claimed are both her husbands, stating that marrying two men is better than marrying one man.
The lady reportedly took to Twitter to portray herself as a happy woman because of being a wife to two men at the same time, using the mathematical Greater Than sign (>>>>) to emphasize her claim that marrying multiple men is greater than marrying just one man.
Most local social media users did not welcome the message she tried to sell to them but that wouldn’t make her change her mind. She reportedly said that her doors are still open for two more men to add to the gang she has already.